從心開始

2010-08-27 21:57:57

我們做什麼事情,都要從心開始,這樣才能全身心的投入,進入狀態,才可能做成做好一件事。

這兩個月以來,我一直想看書,卻怎麼也看不進去,想從迷戀的網絡中解脫,卻總也拔不出腳來。

有一天,一個意念閃過,我網上所流連的是什麼,不過是那可以裝得下我心情的博客,那真誠的問候和暖暖留言,還有聊天時朋友的可以帶來愉悅的話語。我沒有愛上誰,誰也沒有愛上我,那些留言和話語也不過是朋友出於對自己的禮貌,客氣而已,有什麼捨不得,當然也用不著怕辜負誰,傷到誰,因為根本就沒有什麼情愫在裡面。這樣想著,也就覺得真的是沒什麼了。由原來每天幾個小時上網時間到幾十分幾分,甚至不上,由原來有事沒事翻開手機網上看看的習慣,漸漸淡化。在等誰,在看誰,那裡有自己要等的要看的人嗎?也會有人這樣看你嗎?根本不會,大家也不過是聊得來,多聊幾句而已,根本就沒什麼,何必迷戀呢?

以前有一段時間,一直陷入一種情感中不能自拔,困惑好久,以為自己是情竇初開,卻又不覺得是喜歡上對方,天天在網上關注他的頭像,他空間的動態,現實中妄想著哪天能與之相遇。即便在節假日,表面和家裡其樂融融,心裡卻煩氣,沒有他的祝福的信息,總不踏實。天天像懷裡揣個小兔子,不能自已。對他的這種情感由他空間的一篇日誌而起,以為他懂自己,感激零涕,又因為他總情人長情人短的說起,我,愛我的家,又不想失去朋友,更不想做誰的情人知己,這就產生了矛盾心裡。直到後來的又一次長談,他說不會要我做他的情人,只把我當朋友而已,平時說那樣的話,也不過是為了增添談話情趣……到此,我的心結解開了,對他不再有什麼感覺,當然也不會一個人獨自月下徘徊了,一切都回歸於平淡,回歸於自然。

人就簡單點最好,短短幾十年,何必讓自己太累呢。

好些人都願意在網絡上尋找知音知己情人,終日感人事滄桑,嘆寂寞孤獨。

我認為一切隨緣,遇到志趣相投的朋友當然好,沒遇到也沒什麼,只要自己有一顆愛心就夠了,一顆博愛的心。你付出真誠,就可能收穫真誠,付出愛,就可能收穫愛,博愛是沒有止境的,當你去關愛他人的時候,就會從中獲得愉悅和滿足,你的精神境界會提升,慢慢的也就不會太在意那些小情小愛了,至於別人怎麼看,對你如何,這根本不重要,隨他去好了。

對什麼都要用心去了解,去感知,去體會,去把握。放下什麼要從這兒開始,拿起什麼也要從這兒開始。

不論什麼,只要從心開始,從意念開始,解開心結,屏除雜念,心無旁騖,這樣也就很容易進入狀態了,書能看得進去,事能做得下去,想怎麼樣,也就游刃有餘了。

所以,不論你想做什麼,一切都要從心開始……

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Does the fair maiden educate and become a route to train new women

2008-07-08 17:00:00

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Person in charge of the Municipal Women's Federation of Shanghai development department Pan WeiHong tells reporters: Regard in three women of market, Tongji University woman institute, Shanghai normal university woman's institute, women cadre's institute,etc. as the backing, led by organization department of municipal Party committee Shanghai, form it from the middle school, university " after the university " Women personnel training study base. In existing school course opening, will contain and strengthen " fair maiden's courses " such as women's training, etiquette education, housekeeping skill,etc. .

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Take a broad view of the whole country, famous institutions of higher learning such as Tsing-Hua University, Peking University, Fudan University, Zhejiang University,etc. open " the remarkable women's advanced class for research work " one after another , " perfect women's advanced class for research work " , " white collar women mould the shape class " Wait, the course content is as follows, jump ballet, practise the bearing, learn to defend oneself, talk and improve looks, cook Western-style food Called vividly by the various circles of society " Fair maiden's class " .

In addition, some of Shanghai is to " fair maiden's training class " which the young girl of ten to 15 years old put out in recent years Quite attract people's attention too. Training class call through training all kinds of, type, cause girl graceful to have enough and to spare, lose male genital just, talk proper having fair maidenning of artistic accomplishment concurrently. Many parents say that intend to let children try. Some parents say, enter for the fair maiden to train for children, hope to " set up some rules " for her ,Other parents think, the child of ten to 15 years old begins to enter adolescence, it is very beneficial that the appropriate sex is educated at this time.

Whom fair maiden educate become much more popular, reflect quite a few of colony think fair maiden until social environment general to sure, have an advantage nowadays. "What fair maiden we never thought of becoming as a child, no matter in studying or working, hope oneself is like man. " Full-time madam and Chen Yue has a lovely daughter, she says frankly the hope daughter will become a fair maiden in the future: "The appearance is congenital, the training makings of the fair maiden would be trained the day after tomorrow, the child will be graceful that I will hope, knowing, get along with people and make people like. "
 

 

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rabbit who want Escape from the family

2008-05-21 17:00:00

  In the past, there was a little rabbit, he did not want to stay at home.  Then, he says to one's own mother: "I want to run away. "

" if you run, " His mother says, " I am sure to catch up with you, because you are my little rabbit forever. "

" if you catch up with me, " The little rabbit says, " I become a fish, jump into the cool brook, visit opening from you. "

" if you turn into the fish in a cool brook, " His mother says, " I become a fisherman, I will discard the bait and wait for you. "

" if you become a fisherman, " The little rabbit says, " I become a stone, on the very high cliff, let you unable to reach. "

" if you become a stone on a very high cliff, " His mother says, " I become a person of mountaineering, I will climb up the mountaintop, find you. "
 
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" if you become a person of mountaineering, " The little rabbit says, " I turn into a piece of saffron, hide in a secret garden. "

" if you turn into the saffron in a secret garden, " His mother says, " I become a gardener, I will find you in the flowering shrubs. "

" if you become a gardener, find me, " The little rabbit says, " I become a bird, fly away from you. "

" if you become a bird, fly away from my side, " His mother says, " I become a tree, let you come my end of the branch make the nest. "

" if you turn into a tree, " The little rabbit says, " I become a boat, set sail, leave you. "

" if you become a boat, set sail and leave me, "  His mother says, " I become the wind, blow you, let you leave for the direction home. "

" if you become the wind which blow me, " The little rabbit says, " I go to join the circus troupe, become a flying trapeze, play on a swing in the place where you can not fumble. "

" if you do the flying trapeze, " His mother says, " the person that I became a tight-wire walking, I will cross the air, go to you. "

" if you become a person of a tight-wire walking, coming up to me, " The little rabbit says, " I become a little boy, run into the large room to hide from. "

" if you become a little boy, run into the large room, " Rabbit's mother says, " I become your mother, catch you with both hands, hold you in the arms. "

" have, " The little rabbit says, " perhaps I stay here, make your little rabbit. "

  He really does so too.

 "Come on, eat a carrot. " Rabbit's mother says.

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